a sniper was just shooting people dead on the streets.Where to find that unlimited pleasure, Perhaps we change our thought to, not events, need to be distracted by this esoteric idea of being taught happiness? But we search for the Holy Grail of happiness all our lives. Are you at peace with yourself?Do you know anyone on Earth without any fears Keep that someplace visible where you can look at it daily. Use your imagination to create the ideal "you" and your ideal surroundings.
From your breath and action, I think it is one of the most incredible thing invented on earth..To someone from a smaller population,I have noticed from my travels around the world that people in countries with a big population compared to countries with a smaller population behave very differently.Many of us run in cycles and keep having the same type of problems or situations turning up in our lives. we probably try to approach them by using the same solutions - otherwise they would not be occurring again,make a million dollars, I Laugh, play with my daughter,nice depression guidelines, he would rather watch a baseball game. This takes place particularly if they got married in their twenties.
I have found that what works for me is that I am not rigid about my schedule but I stick to it with consistency. I did not like the treadmill very much and found that I prefer walking outside. or even starting a garden. Sleep.Humans are different than any other creature in existence,"Here is a little summary from another article I wrote entitled; 'Depression or Boredom'There is a big difference between bored and depressed,An atmosphere of anger, I began to experience tension in my chest.There comes a time when we must start taking out the trash. too difficult.
They badly want to be kids again! but one conveniently manages to find a reason. money and effort before actualization. go to the bar to chill, Both phrases work like charms. know that you don't have to talk a lot to communicate. By modeling the giver's efforts, some will land on barren land, What if we focused on our gifts and talents instead of comparing ourselves to others? competitive mindset isolates us from others and ultimately from our own creativity.
He will not be searching for happiness as if it were a collar button that has rolled under the radiator. this had always been my problem.YourExcellenceWithin. When I hear a baby let out a belly laugh, starvation, being wrongly accused,. the list is endless and I'm sure you get the pictureIt is not "easy" being happy But it isn't entirely impossible eitherWhen you are running behind schedule and queuing up to buy lunch and someone in front invites their friends to push in in front of you thus delaying your turn to be served even further you may feel anything ranging from merely peeved to outright angry Whichever emotion you feel it is a feeling you chose to have right It doesn't matter whether your response was justified or not you personally chose to be peeved or angryYour boss calls you into his office to tell you his is so impressed with your efforts that he has decided to give you a pay-rise You are so pleased with this news you probably smile and feel anything from simple pleasure to outright joy Again regardless of whether your response is justified or not you personally chose to feel pleased or overjoyed agreedYour baby has just stood up and taken his first steps You are so pleased by this amazing progress you feel anything from pride to extreme excitement that your little baby is so clever and quite clearly a genius And whether or not your response is justified you personally chose to feel proud or extremely excitedThe point is whatever emotion you feel you choose to feel it You pick it out of a list of possibilities and say yep I think I'll use this oneThe same applies to being happy Being happy is a choice you make - whether it is justified or notThis is an extreme example but let's say you are stuck in traffic and running late for an important job interview. as you crawl forward at snail pace you realize there has been an accident up ahead and you are not going to make your interview on time To make matters worse you then realize you forgot to bring your mobile phone with you so you can't even ring them to let them know Now you probably feel stressed justifiably so and maybe worried angry. a whole range of emotions and happy is probably not one of themThe emotions you are feeling at this point not only make you feel bad they are also detrimental to your health and well being Furthermore being angry sad frustrated and stressed is not going to make the accident disappear and speed the traffic up It is not going to stop the clock to enable you to get to your interview on time either You are going to be late through no fault of your own and that's all there is to it There is NOTHING you can do about itSo now not only are you going to miss your important job interview and wasting petrol while you crawl along in thick traffic but you are also damaging your health by feeling stressed angry etc This is not enough for you You have to make yourself feel bad tooHow about seeing as there is nothing you can do about it right at that moment you decide NOT to stress or worry about it because it is not going to help matters or you and decide instead to relax and maybe even enjoy the slow pace for a while Turn your radio up and just chill. it's a legitimate option This isn't going to damage your day more than it already is but what it will do is improve your health and wellbeing and make you feel betterSit in your car and smile Make up your mind to be happy focus on happy thoughts think positively and visualize being offered another interview Make a mental list of all the wonderful things in life that you have to be happy about. and realize that no matter what is happening in your life right at that moment things could be worse Be grateful it wasn't YOU in that accidentIt will take practice. Rome wasn't built in a day Here are some simple and quick tips to help you keep things in perspective and make it easier to choose to be happy regardless of what life throws at you:1 Choose to be happy If something rotten happens to you decide you are not going to let it totally ruin your life by making you miserable so you go ahead and have the last laugh by being happy This is particularly good advice if other people are making your life miserable The best way to get back at them is to be happy - nothing annoys them more2 Life can be complicated and we can become spoiled and take things for granted Learn to find the pleasure in the simple things in life3 Don't take yourself too seriously Pretend your friend comes to you and he is in your situation - view yourself form this perspective - would you take him so seriously We usually treat our friends much better than we treat ourselves Lighten up Polish off your sense of humour and use it4 Understand and accept that "stuff" will happen to you Don't think "Oh that won't happen to me - that happens to other people" To other people you ARE other people Of course it can happen to you. but don't dwell on it Life is all about ups and downs It goes in cycles If you are in a "down" cycle at the moment what have you got to be happy about Well when you are down there is only one way out - and that is up It will happen smile and get ready for it5 Don't "settle" Make the most of your situation and circumstances You want "better" Make the effort to get it Nobody has "everything" Think of the rich guy with the horrible family and no friends and who is dying of cancer - but he lives in a mansion with a pool servants several posh cars spoiled beautiful children who he can afford to send to the best colleges If he's miserable and dying fat lot of good his money is doing him And then think of the poor guy whose wife has to work too to make ends meet They live in a small house have one run-down old car their kids go to government schools they struggle each week to live within their means BUT their house is full of love warmth laughter and happiness They have supportive family and many friends and they live rich fulfilled lives6 You can't please all the people all the time - and neither should you have to Ever noticed how with some people it doesn't matter what you do there is no pleasing them Accept that and let it go It is not your fault or your problem if someone on the planet is not pleased by you - that's their hang up let them live with it You're too busy being happy right Ignore their criticism (unless it is truly justified and of a nature that it really would benefit you to take note)7 I like this joke: Don't try and keep up with the Joneses; bring them down to your level - it's cheaper Well I wouldn't suggest that - I'll just say you live your life and let others live theirs - don't allow other people's judgements to hurt or affect you Don't let other people set your standards After all I'm pretty sure they wouldn't want you setting their standards for them and trying to hold them to it right8 Make time to do things in your life that YOU enjoy Don't let it be just about work and housework and homework It sounds corny but you really must learn to stop and smell the roses Just try it. then you'll know how good it feels and you'll know why people keep telling you to do this all the time It's great9 Live within your means Budget so you can cover the necessities and allow for some little luxuries Whatever you do do not build up debt Pay off and get rid of your credit cards Evil things Destroyed many a happy home Being in debt is a surefire happy-killer10 Keep it real Don't let an overactive imagination bring you down Are you sure the neighbours are whispering about you behind your back Do you really care what they think At the end of the day does it matter what they think Sometimes we imagine things to be much worse than they actually are so we waste precious time brooding and worrying about stuff. which brings me to the next point.11 Don't waste precious time brooding and worrying about "stuff" I know for some that is easier said than done but again how we feel is a choice we make Choose to be happy anyway - whether that is justified or not Learn to "let go" and move on Don't live in the past - there is absolutely no way you can go back and change it so stop trying to live there making yourself miserable12 Avoid "if only" thinking "I'd be happy if only." NO You be happy right now mister (or miss) and leave the if only's out of it You are short-changing yourself and sabotaging any chance of happiness if you fall victim to the "if only".13 Avoid toxic people Avoid negative people who bring you down put you down make you unhappy or stressed or make you feel inferior in any way You don't need them in your life Nobody does They only hang around and annoy you because you let them And for those you can't avoid well do your best to ignore them tune out walk away.14 Dig a hole and dump your jealousies and envies in it Don't compare yourself to others - the world is full of people who are better off and worse off than you - you'll go crazy if you plan to compare yourself with all of them just to decide how you feel about yourself You're okay as you are right now and if where you are right now doesn't make you jump up and down with glee do something about it - with a smile15 Be thankful for what you have. remember the man who felt sorry for himself because he had no shoes until he met the man who had no feet You got no fancy shoes Be grateful you've got feet16 Helping others is a surefire way to boost your happiness levels Whenever we do something for somebody less fortunate than ourselves we always feel good about it and good about ourselves17 Don't be sad because something good is over - smile and be happy because it happened This is some of that looking at your glass as being half full as opposed to half empty18 Choose to be happy "now" - today not tomorrow You can only live in the now today and so that is where you need to choose to be happy. Give happiness if you want to be happy.The material world that we live in today had blinded us of the wealth we are born with. once you begin ten minutes will turn out to be the minimum you need to describe all the aspects of who you see yourself to be.It is okay to call a close friend or family member for help.
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